Family Discussion Questions for Wednesday

Today has me thinking about family.

Not necessarily the people who are biologically related to me, but the rather the individuals whom I have chosen to call my own and whom I know would do the same for me, and all that such a relationship comes with..

Regardless of how much we annoy and frustrate each other, it's that simple thought that keeps me patient. And then when I think of how kind they are to me when I am at my worst, I am grateful.

Now to answer some church small group discussion questions from this Sunday's sermon.

Ice Breaker: What was your favorite TV show growing up?

Good Eats. I really enjoyed how Alton Brown would apply and explain scientific principles in a creative manner to make some delicious food. Plus it was one of the shows that my mother and I enjoyed watching together.

1. "It takes wisdom to have a good family, and it takes understanding to make it strong" (Proverbs 24:3). Having a strong, secure foundation is the first step to having a great family. What does this mean in your life?

God first. While it is always good to have a good network of relationships and a stable source of income, etc. all these things can still be lost or be damaged due to any number of variables (wars, famine, disaster, etc). With a desire to honor God as the primary focus in the familial relationship, I believe that a family will be able to resolve conflict, find direction, and higher purpose in spite of the fallen world we live in.

2. All families face changes, failures and rejections. Is there anything your family has gone through that you care to share with the group? How did you get through it?

There was a point in my life where when I left home that some roles and interactions had to be redefined. Going through this process was a challenge for all the parties involved, but we got there eventually. Growing up is tough for both kids and parents.

3. Colossians 3:13 says, "Make allowance for each other's faults, and forgive anyone who offends you." Do you have troubles forgiving others, especially family members?

Depends on who and for what.

4. What kinds of things does your family do to spend meaningful time together?

Well, we did watch tv and play video games back in the day. Now I just have earth-shattering philosophical phone conversations with my mom every once in a blue moon. And then there are those trips during Christmastime.